Anonymous asked:
i have depression and ive tried to kill myself a few times but its never worked, and the person i love and was seeing for ages is mad at me and doesnt want to meet up with me at all now, i dont know what to do i hate the way i am and what i have become ive been to the doctors for help to try and help myself but until that works what can i do? :(

Dear Anon,

No matter how upset or down you are feeling, you should never, ever, try and take your life, because I know it sounds hard to believe but in time things WILL get better. The person that you love, will come around, and start to look after you and support you, and if they don’t then are they really the person you thought they were? Don’t hate yourself, I know you may look in the mirror, and cry because you don’t like the way you look, or sometimes you may sit and think that you don’t like the way you act sometimes, but that’s normal, everyone has at least one insecurity. Why do you think the majority of the girl population splatters make-up on their face? You are beautiful, and I know I can’t see what you look like, but you are different to everybody else in this world, and that makes you beautiful and you never ever forget that. Lastly, hang in there, all of the pieces will eventually fit together. It may not be easy, and it may not be quick to do, but it will happen. Hang in there sweetie.

Lizzie <3


Anonymous asked:
Heya Lizzie. I really need advice. ndfx I'm scared to tell my parents two things. One, I'm bisexual two, I'm an atheist. Though they have strong beliefs and my dad doesn't like bisexual or homosexual people, at all. He actually told me to go jump off a bridge if I converted both religion and felt like I was bisexual. I'm proud, Of who and what I am and I know it won't change at this rate. My parents are strict. I'm dependant on them and they would probably dis own me. How do I tell them ;-; welp

Dear anon,

The only way you can tell them, is if you are confident, and you believe in yourself. There may be consequences, but this is who you are, and I guess that they will just learn to accept it. It may be hard, but there are reasons in which you are like this, because you are who you are, and nothing is going to change that. The best way to tell them, is to sit them down, preferably one at a time, and just tell them, and if they love you, they will respect your beliefs and sexuality, no matter how strict they are. Good luck with what ever you choose to do.

Lizzie <3


Anonymous asked:
hey lizzie, i'm really struggling with friendships.:( i have a group of people at my college which i work with and we had to do a event with, but i never feel like they like me and i struggle making friends, what should i do? i don't know whether to hang around with them, cos i dont know they like me:( :(

Dear anon,

Friendship is a really difficult thing to handle, especially if you feel as if you are not liked. You have to gain confidence, and not think negatively about the situation, because maybe you’re just paranoid and just ‘feel’ as if they don’t like you. You can do either one of three things. 1) Talk to these people, and just let them know the way they make you feel, I’m sure they will understand, and tell you the truth. If they do like you, they’ll change their ways, and if they don’t, they’ll tell you. 2) Change friendship groups, I know it’s not as easy as that, but perhaps you could add someone in your class on a social networking site and get talking to them, and they may invite you to work with them. 3) Tell your teacher, and be confident in yourself, but remember, always be yourself, and i’m sure if you are, you’ll be liked, because you seem like a very lovely person.

Lizzie <3 


Anonymous asked:
I'm a guy and I think I might be bi. I don't know to like just experiment to see how it goes doing things with guys. I just don't know what to think :(

Dear Anon,

I used to think I was bi, but after experimenting, I realized that I wasn’t, I just ‘fancy’ girls, so maybe the best thing to do in this situation, is go and experiment, maybe the same thing will happen to you, maybe it won’t, but no matter what, you are normal, and there is nothing wrong with you. Maybe if you have any bi or gay friends, they’ll let you experiment with them? If you haven’t, or feel uncomfortable, then wait until you meet the right person, and take things slow.

Lizzie <3


Anonymous asked:
dear lizzie, i rub my vagina really fast up and down to have an organsim, i havnt fingered myself yet and im scared to, is it normal to get an orgasim the way i do? hahaa..

Dear anon,

No, it is totally normal to orgasm in that way. Different people orgasm from doing different things, and some people don’t even orgasm at all. There’s nothing to be scared of when fingering yourself, you can’t hurt yourself or damage your insides. Masturbating is basically just a way to discover yourself.

Lizzie <3


Anonymous asked:
So I have friends but like I don't think they like me very much and I feel like im getting in the way. Help? <3

Dear Anon,

Nobody should feel that way, with anyone; if it bothers you that much, maybe you should ask them why they act like that with you? Either that, or just get a new friendship group, people who will make you feel welcome. I’m sure you are a lovely person and deserve so much better.

Lizzie <3 


Anonymous asked:
Dear Lizzie,

There's this girl I like, and she likes me too, but the problem is that this girl is my best mates ex-girlfriend, and they were seeing each other for like 2 years. My friend doesn't know that we like each other, and he only speaks to this girl very rarely nowadays, and has no intention of going back out with her. What should I do? And should I tell my friend we like each other?

Dear Anon,

You should tell your friend that you like his ex girlfriend, and that she likes you back. If he has no intention of going back out with her, and they rarely speak, then I guess there wouldn’t be a problem. He may be slightly pissed off, as you’re best friends, but maybe he’d be okay with it. The only way you can find out whether he’d be okay, is to talk to him about it, and don’t carry on with things, until you know for certain it’d be okay, because if he found out there was more to it than just liking each other, and he didn’t like it, this may cause problems.

Lizzie <3


Anonymous asked:
Dear Lizzie,

my boyfriend is staying over another girls house in a few weeks and I'm freaking out because she's a slut and it's just going t obe them, and I feel like I'm going to loose control all over again :'(

Dear Anon,

If you trust him, which I imagine you do, or you wouldn’t be with him, then you shouldn’t stop him going, because that shows that you have respect for him, and he’s not going to feel like he’s on lock down. I’d say until then, you don’t fall out with him over it, and try and get closer to him, because who knows.. If you get closer, he may change his mind, and not go, and if he doesn’t, and still decides to go, then only get suspicious if he starts acting ‘weird’ boys can have girl mates too.. right?

Lizzie <3